How to find out whether they love you or not?
As you understand, I am a man. Accordingly, I know how much I adore. Accordingly, I know how much other friends adore it. I easily know myself very well, I study myself, I notice my own reactions.
And later I see that other friends are no different from me.
We all have the same nature, let psychologists shoot themselves to prove the opposite, but we are monotonous! MONOTINE!
We are one huge herd living according to social laws. And most of them pay attention to social indicators of love.
I wish that you begin to pay attention to our NATURAL physiology and laws of love.
This will be the basis of the article – human nature. So, what are the indicators of a friend who truly adores a lady?
2. He speaks directly about love.
4. He thinks quite a lot about the lady.
6. He does not offend (does not humiliate, does not insult, etc.)
8. Enjoys and admires the lady.
Carefully, read the characteristics of a loving friend again. Oh, how wonderful they sound! How I want to believe in this pink fairy tale, because it is so beautiful!
But in reality, all these indicators were invented by ladies. Moreover, I didn’t bother and invent something, I got them from several sites that girls wrote about how much their friends adore them.
I typed “Loving Buddy Indicators” into Google, and the search engine returned a bunch of rosy articles on this topic. Damn experts!
Indeed, if you want to be unhappy in a relationship, ask a lady for advice! We cross out all this pink snot and read on.
All these indicators only indirectly speak about the feelings of a friend. They can also be a loving friend. And a friend who obeys social norms… They are not an indicator of love. They mean little in a biological sense.
We will return to indicators of male love a little later. For now, let’s climb into the male soul and see what’s happening in that place.
First, let’s look at this.
Your inaccuracy lies in the fact that you compare the emotions of a loving friend with the emotions of a loving lady, and expect these emotions from men!
Moreover, you not only expect them. You also demand them. Ask the man to do what a lady should feel. You get offended if your friends don’t act the way you want!
You are making a woman out of a real man. And later you yourself suffer from this asshole.
In other words. Here, you love it. And you think that a man must adore you just as much as you adore him. He must feel the same as you.
But a man feels differently. This is where the misunderstanding comes from, this is where all the trouble comes from.
A loving man feels only one thing. This is a responsibility. A man’s love is a responsibility for a woman. No responsibility – no love.
The man is responsible for:
- Lady’s safety.
- For her health and appearance.
- For continuation of the family.
These are the 3 indicators of a man’s true love. This is real male love, genuine, if you wish. Natural! Evolutionary!
This is not the drool that you are used to. These are not words about love, these are not sitting next to each other and holding hands. This is not to blow away specks of dust. This is not constantly thinking about the lady you love. It’s not enjoying her and telling her fucking false compliments.
This is the lady’s responsibility. Responsibility implies love. Love implies responsibility.
Now let me make sure. At this point everything will become clear to you. Your nature will say: “Yes! This is how it really is!”
In a biological sense, every young lady is a future mother. Based on this, nature has built into male love to protect from danger.
What’s scary in the domestic biological world?
- Left without food.
- Be left without a roof over your head.
- Other buddies are scary!
- Well, the predators themselves are already afraid of us)))
The man feeds, gives money for food (gives his own salary card, poor fellow). At least he is not against the lady managing the money. For a loving friend, the money they earn is unspecialized money. His and hers. And not just him.
Some friends may regard this as weakness. They say, am I henpecked, so that I can give all the money to the lady?
Or the man doesn’t give all the money to the lady (he hides his stash, the bastard). Either this is a problem for him, then this is an excuse to think about his true love.
A loving man provides housing for a lady. Provided he can do it. Well, not all men, unfortunately, have private apartments. But a loving man is able to get an apartment.
This is jealousy. A loving man will be jealous. He won’t necessarily follow and interrogate, but if you give an excuse, his instinct will kick in and he won’t be able to help but react.
A loving man does not take his lady to zoos. This is fucking scary! Just kidding, of course))).
Remember! A man who adores you will invest in your health and beauty. He won’t waste money and say: “Oh no, honey, this blouse is too expensive, let’s go and choose something less expensive.”
You will say: “I need new boots.”
He’ll say, “No problem, take it!”
You’ll say, “I need some night cream.”
He’ll say, “Get away from me, take whatever you need.”
The young man will decorate her like a Christmas tree, making her beautiful. The most beautiful. And he won’t lie when he says she’s the most beautiful in the world!
Well, and good health. A loving man won’t bring his lady bags of gingerbread. Instead, he’ll say, “Stop eating that crap! It’s unhealthy! Do you want to be a fat pig? Hey, you’re already showing your belly! The next day, you’ll go jogging with me!”
A loving man will force, beg, and negotiate so that his lady takes care of herself and is attractive. She didn’t overeat, she wasn’t lazy, he’ll work out with her, he’ll force her to quit smoking and drinking, he’ll make her healthy and beautiful. HEALTHY AND BEAUTIFUL! Because he’s responsible for it!
And most men make their girlfriends sick and awful. Because they don’t care about them. They don’t care that they smoke cigarettes and drink beer. They don’t care that they overeat. They don’t care that they don’t move enough and have forgotten about development as such. When I see a fat girl, I realize her man didn’t care about her, otherwise she wouldn’t have become that way. He would have thrown out the whole damn mayonnaise, he would have fed her fruit and porridge instead of candy and cookies! He would have squeezed everything out of her at the gym. And he deteriorates along with her in front of the idiot box. What kind of love is that? Besides, there’s nothing here!
If a man delays conception, then he doesn’t truly love. Yes, he may fear the unknown, yes, he may fear losing a certain freedom. But a loving man unconsciously tries to have offspring from the object of his love.
Moreover, what if the woman objects, or other events occur? Never mind! If he loves, then it’s easy throughoutpleasureand he’ll grab the girl by the hair and say, “I want to have children with you.” And cum inside her. And he won’t let her have an abortion! Under any circumstances, under any circumstances!
As if I’d tell the girl I love to have an abortion! But with the girl I don’t love—easy! Can you smell it? How much unlove hangs in the air in our immoral world!
The standard of love: a man will want to have children with you again and again. You give birth, and he’s already thinking about the next one. Then he’ll truly adore you and be the best husband and father.
The more children you have, the more he adores you. It’s a fact!
If your man gave you one child (and even then by accident, as it turned out), and he doesn’t need more children, then this indicates that he doesn’t really need you.
According to social laws, he is obliged to be a family man, he has to raise a child, but he has no emotions for you! It’s easy to get tired of a habit that won’t last long. He submits to society and, perhaps, in the distant past, would have left you if it were not for the morals of society.
From the standpoint of evolution, while you are conceived by one friend, you are out of danger for other men. In other words, no one will take you away! Based on this, the friend has a burning desire to have children from the lady he really, truly adores!
Despite all this, the second behavior is only in the background.
If all three factors of responsibility are met, then the man absolutely adores. And he may behave differently in other areas. And you may mistakenly interpret this as indifference to yourself. Or selfishness.
A man can get high on his muscles.
He may be missing from work for days.
He may forget to call.
Or worse, they may forget about your birthday or wedding date.
He may forget about the pleasant words that you demand from him.
Moreover, he may not help you with anything.
But this is all background. Your expectations and background.
True love lies in responsibility for your own lady. And nothing more. Whether you want it or not. But this is the essence of male love.
How is your husband responsible for your safety, health and appearance and does he want children? Think about this carefully. This will enlighten you.
How to determine whether they adore you or not?
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How do different zodiac symbols adore?
Aries is an impressionable, impulsive symbol that flares up like a flame. Perhaps you are fascinated by something beautiful and fall in love at first sight. Moreover, he carries this property throughout his life and is capable of strong emotions at any age. Aries’ passion sweeps away everything in its path, but it can also fade away as quickly as it appeared, if Aries feels monotony. He is attracted by everything new, entertaining and unusual; he is usually carried away by a catchy, spectacular appearance. His ambitions and Requests are enormous, he cannot stand it if someone boldly bursts into his life and begins to limit his freedom.
Taurus does not have the opportunity to imagine himself without love; for him, to adore is as natural as breathing or breathing. This much is clear: Taurus is ruled by Venus, the planet of love. Taurus prefers the level of quality to the number of admirers (admirers) and is looking for a person with whom it would be possible to live in harmony all his life. This is a very passionate symbol, which, unlike Aries, is by no means impulsive. Here emotions do not flare up immediately, they grow little by little.
