If a man loves you

If a man loves you, he’ll always look for an excuse to see you, not for reasons why he can’t. If a man loves you, a woman can feel it.
Many women don’t know how to tell if a man loves them. And while experienced women who’ve been through a lot already know at least the main signs of true male love, young girls and those inexperienced in matters of the heart have no idea how to recognize a man’s love, how to distinguish genuine feelings from sweet lies—they haven’t yet learned to separate the wheat from the chaff. In this collection of women’s secrets and clever feminine tricks about male love, you’ll learn how to tell when a man loves a woman seriously, and when he’s just playing around.
Of course, you shouldn’t take these secrets of feminine wisdom and little feminine tricks too seriously: to conclude that a man adores you, it’s enough for the vast majority of the signs of male love listed here to be present in his actions and words. Well, if his behavior doesn’t match most of these signs, then it’s more likely (though again—not a certainty, but very, very possible) that he doesn’t truly adore you, but is just playing a romantic game of cat and mouse, and in this case, he’s the cat, while you’re cast in the role of the gray, suffering mouse.
The true signs of a man’s love. If a man truly loves a woman, then…
If a man truly loves a woman, he will never, under any circumstances, humiliate her.
If a man loves a woman, she doesn’t need to win his love or respect, nor does she need to justify anything—all the proof already lives in his heart, and you couldn’t burn it out of there even with red-hot metal.
If a man truly loves a woman—rather than tormenting himself or her with neurotic delusions—he will never strike her under any circumstances or on any pretext: if he doesn’t hit her, it means he adores her. And this applies not only to physical blows, but also to emotional, psychological, and mental ones. A loving man does not stab his own woman in the heart with a dagger—he reserves it for her enemies and his own.
A loving man constantly wants a child with the woman he loves.
If a man truly loves a woman—rather than simply loving himself through his love for her—he will give up everything he owns, sell his beloved car, and work three jobs from dawn till dusk, all to ensure that his beloved is happy and, as far as possible, wants for nothing.
If a man truly loves a woman, he will make many sacrifices for her—from refusing to be friends with certain people to agreeing to spend every weekend with his dearest and most beloved wife on an exhausting shopping spree through malls.
If true love lives in a man’s heart, he forgives his chosen one for every flaw, regardless of their number, significance, or unusualness.
If a man adores a woman, he asks her to marry him; he wants her to become his official, lawful wife, so they can be together through both sorrow and joy.
If a man truly adores a woman, he tries to spend ALL his free time with her.
When a man is in love with a certain woman, he isn’t afraid to make a fool of himself or look ridiculous in the eyes of those around him and his beloved; he is ready to do anything just to win her love in return.
If a man is in love, he’s the one who calls first, rather than tormenting his beloved by not contacting her for days on end.
A loving man doesn’t show off in front of the woman he loves—next to her, he’s as gentle as the humblest lamb.
It is difficult to say exactly why a particular man loves a particular woman, but in most cases this love is based on his love for his mother, if it is true love, or on the unavailability of a certain woman to him, if it is not true love but merely a neurotic dependency masquerading as the emotion of love.
If a man is in love, he is willing to wait a year for his first intimate encounter with his beloved—as long as she is by his side, in his life, and does not reject his advances.
When a man is in love, he often gives the woman small gifts or large presents—depending on his social status and financial means.
If a young man is in love, he’ll spend his last 100 rubles to treat a girl to a café, just to impress her, make her happy, and please her.
When love dwells in a man’s heart, he doesn’t ogle other women in search of new romantic adventures—he already has everything he needs and doesn’t need anyone else, not even a size 10 bust or a Jennifer Popes-style voluptuous behind.
If a man is in love, he’ll move mountains for his beloved, build a career, start a business, and become famous throughout the land.
When a man is in love, he speaks tender words to his beloved, even if he can’t. Or, at the very least, he tries to do so, learning the art of beautiful compliments and words, expressing his emotions if not with words, then with gestures, actions, gifts, support, and help.
A woman can rely on a man who truly loves her at any moment—without reservations or exceptions.
In any difficult or highly uncertain situation, a man who truly loves her will always stand by her side, even if she is wrong.
If a man’s love for a woman is genuine, it contains no conditions or calculations based on the principle of “If you don’t do this or that, I’ll stop loving you.” Indeed, in true love, there are absolutely no conditions or calculations—except perhaps those aimed at making his beloved even happier.
True love, my friends, never resorts to blackmail or bribes.
If a successful man truly loves a woman, he doesn’t take her love for granted; he simply tries to make her happy.
If a married man has truly fallen in love with a woman—not just in words—he will do everything to be with her not only in practice but also officially; that is, he will go through a scandalous separation and an unpleasant property division, just so as not to reduce his beloved to the status of a defenseless mistress.
If a man truly loves his woman, he will not humiliate her, insult her, or scold her in front of other people.
When a man loves, it doesn’t matter to him whether his beloved is a shrew or not.
If a man truly loves her—and isn’t suffering from a passionate, neurotic, yet temporary mental and emotional disorder—he will never, under any circumstances, leave his beloved for any reason: if necessary, he will fend off admirers, turn down 1,000 and 1 lovely girls, but remain faithful to his beloved in all his innocent chastity.
If a man is in love, his wife’s friends bore him, even if they flirt with him.
A sure sign: if a guy is in love, expect sweet text messages from him.
A sure sign: if a man is in love, he’ll take on some of the household chores, and—from time to time—he’ll wash the dishes at his beloved’s request or even without her asking; he’ll occasionally clean the house himself, take out the trash, and run errands.
A sure sign: if a man truly loves a woman, he will never be embarrassed by her, even if she talks complete nonsense in public.
If a man loves a woman, he will, one way or another, earn money, work hard, and seek opportunities to provide his beloved with everything she needs—and under no circumstances will he simply sit idly by, relying on her support.
When a man is in love, he isn’t shy about being seen with his lady in public, openly taking her to the movies, restaurants, and formal events, bringing her to his apartment, and introducing her to his mother and friends. He isn’t shy and doesn’t make up silly excuses.
If a man loves, he loves not with his eyes, but with his whole soul and heart; therefore, his beloved’s appearance is truly irrelevant to him—in his heart, she will always be the most beautiful and a delightthe most attractive, beautiful woman in the world. And even though she’s currently running around the house in a greasy bathrobe and a cucumber face mask, she’s still his beloved woman.
If a man loves her, under no circumstances will he ever tell her in all seriousness, “You’re the only one—you were, you are, and that’s all I need.”
If a man loves a woman, he loves only her. There are really no exceptions here, no matter what swingers and advocates of free love might say.
If you don’t know how to tell whether a man loves you or not, then during a fire or some other danger, pay attention to whether he rushes to save you first—or his own stuff. If it’s you, then he truly loves you; if it’s his stuff, then you’re just a phase in his life. If there are no extreme situations in your life, then imagine him rushing to save you first if your house caught fire.
When there is true love between a woman and a man, the guy doesn’t care what zodiac sign his beloved is or how well she’s compatible with him.
If a man loves not just with words, but with his heart and soul, he doesn’t care what his beloved wears—whether it’s genuine Louis Vuitton or a knockoff. But if his beloved does care what she wears, he will go to great lengths to buy her the clothes she desires. And not someday, but right now, provided, of course, that he has the financial means to do so without taking on too much risk.
When a man is in love with a woman, he is ready to overcome any obstacle just to be with her.
If a man is in love, then during intimate moments, his first thought will be the comfort and pleasure of his beloved, rather than just his own enjoyment.
For a loving man, his beloved’s opinion is always of paramount importance and always carries weight; he always takes her into account and considers her thoughts, even if he doesn’t say so directly—his actions, not his words, should prove this.
If a man truly loves her, he won’t part with his beloved for a long time (two, three, or more months or years); instead, he constantly finds a way to either adapt to her circumstances or create the right conditions for her by his side.
When a man loves a woman, he’ll eat food she serves him—even if he doesn’t actually like it—and he’ll praise her cooking, even if it’s far from perfect.
When love reigns in a man’s heart, he tries not to miss even the slightest opportunity to please his beloved: he gives her massages, runs her a bath, helps her around the house, listens to her stories about work, brings her sweets, and prepares unique surprises that she’ll enjoy.
If a man loves a woman, he picks her up from work and drops her off at work whenever there is even the slightest opportunity to do so.
When a man loves, he is the first to get up at night to feed or change the baby if it starts crying.
If a man loves her, he will never be late for a date and will never make his beloved wait, because whoever is late demonstrates their own importance, asserting themselves at the expense of the one who is waiting. And in love, there is no room for calculation.
If a man loves her, he will arrive early for a date.
A loving man sees nothing shameful in yielding to his beloved in an argument or acknowledging her primacy in the relationship and family—since the ultimate prize—she herself—is already in his hands, and he needs nothing more.
A loving man does not judge his beloved woman’s appearance.
On public transportation, a young man in love will always give up his seat for the woman of his heart.
If a man is in love, under no circumstances will he suggest to a woman a delightIf a man loves a woman, he won’t disappear from her life for a long time without valid, compelling reasons. And if he does disappear, he’ll later explain, without drama or tension, why he was gone. A loving man will generally warn his beloved in advance; if he has business to attend to and needs to be away, he won’t leave her in the dark and in a state of uncertain despair.
When a man loves, he cares for his beloved even when she is down on her luck or ill; for him, misfortune and illness are not an excuse to break up, but another opportunity to prove his love.
When a man truly loves a woman, he does not flaunt his emotions in front of others, but pours out the fullness of his love in private with his beloved. For displaying emotions in public is nothing more than self-adulation—merely a psychological reinforcement of one’s own importance. A loving heart, however, needs to justify nothing to anyone; on the contrary, it prefers to hide its treasure from prying eyes.
When a man loves a woman, he loves her children too, even if they are not his own.
In short, when love lives in a man’s heart, a woman senses it at any moment—she has no doubts, no pangs of conscience, she is not being manipulated; she simply knows she is loved. When love fades, however, a woman is also the first to sense it—because then a man ceases to be so kind and attentive in all those familiar little ways, and a woman who has been spoiled by true masculine love simply cannot help but feel the cooling of his attitude toward her.
But what if a man never truly loved her under any circumstances, never intended to, or only paid lip service to his love? This is always evident—a woman always knows when she is not loved, though she may find it hard to admit it to herself—to admit that she means so little to this man, who means everything to her. When a man doesn’t love, he manipulates, mocks, and remains cold to the passionate suffering and most earnest pleas of his supposedly beloved woman; he demands proof—and thus sacrifices—of her love, while sacrificing nothing himself.
I don’t think I’ll be wrong if I say that true love is the happiness of two people at every moment; it is the mutual, shared flight of two souls into nirvana.
But neurotic amorous dependence, commonly referred to by the catchy yet inherently foolish word “passion” (since to experience passion is to suffer—they share the same root), it is always unequal, it is always unhappy for at least one of its participants, it is always painful and has a tormented nature, it always pulls the blanket to just one side—the side of the one who says they adore, but in reality is as cold as a frog inside.
Be joyful, for happiness is love, and love is happiness. And it cannot be otherwise. Everything else—every other possibility that breeds doubt and pain—comes from the evil one.
Author: Olga Grigoryan
The whole world is in love with someone. These are idols, erotic models, movie and pop stars, presidents—the unattainable ideals of romantic youth. The soul is constantly searching for someone to fall in love with, even though it realizes deep down that it is called to fall in love more deeply with its own One and Only, Unique, and Closest Bridegroom—Christ.

He alone, the Heavenly Lamb, is worthy of our love, our attention, our heart, and our mind. He, the Heavenly Jealous One, El Kanah, who loves us with a love beyond all understanding, is worthy of our choosing Him as our Eternal Ideal, of discovering the Kingdom of His Divine Wisdom, and of desiring only Him.
The era of the third millennium will be filled with the wondrous mysteries of God’s Love. At present, we receive Love in a certain state of stagnation. We find it difficult to maintain an unquenchable Flame, a constant thirst; we are losing the experience of Supreme Love. Based on this, we need the passion of the flesh and the heavenly burning of the spirit, the soul, and the whole being—just as, in the earthly order, we give our own life to the beloved being down to the last drop. In the third millennium, the Church will teach about the Holy Spirit’s passion for Christ.
The first whom the Lord Most High loved was Wisdom, Sophia, the First Love of the Most High for Her. From time immemorial She was anointed with Love, from the very Beginning, before the earth came into being, at a time when the abysses did not yet exist. The fruit of the Creator’s love for Wisdom is the creation of the entire earth and of humanity. And the joy of this divine love was with the sons of men. Based on this, the source of romanticism is not the inspiration of the enchanting muses of the Greek pantheon, but the Fire-winged Solovetsky Sophia—the true artist of Being, inspiring thousands of new theoromantics, future poets of the Holy Spirit, painters of the Divine Civilization, and artists of the pre-world Drama of the Cross. The All-Wise Sophia is a witness to the creation of entirely new civilizations and the demise of the civilizations of the worlds. She, who is more than that, is permitted to restore the thirst, aspiration, love, and zeal for the Heavenly Creator that were stolen by Lucifer.
The first Adam was in love with the Almighty Father. The light of heavenly virtues shone in his heart, nourishing him in Eden, where the Tree of the Immaculate Beginning was the source of destiny. The Old Serpent envied this union of love between the first man and the Almighty, and, having tempted Eve, made Adam fall in love with himself, replacing the divine ecstasy in Adam’s heart with a deadly high, the contemplation of the beauty of Wisdom with a lustful, covetous gaze upon forbidden mysteries. Thus, the Fall replaced love with a high, a deadly poison on which humanity feeds.
In one of His revelations, the Lord indicated that the greatest desecration and the foremost sin against the Almighty is the distortion of the image of the Creator, slander, and war against His Transcendent Love. Sin, hypocrisy, lust, forbidden secrets, Cainism, and seduction definitively seal the gates of His divine love.
The beauty of the Immaculate Conception, the Song of Songs of the Beloved Bridegroom, His Sweetest Cross, and His love for humanity, anointed with myrrh—these alone are worthy of each of us. Axios! Wisdom presents a new and uniquely good culture, artistry, poetry, the Paschal dance, and the music of love for Christ.
Profess the religion of Higher Love. “O, from now on, My child, with My sovereign hand I forbid any Christianity other than the marriage bed, the songs of the Bridal Supper, and blissful love. From now on, only oils that anoint and balms that soothe…” (from the Revelation of the Mother of God).
Let each of us make a vow of love, a vow of close union with the Divine Lamb. For love is being pierced by the arrow of supreme love, as opposed to the erotically intoxicating arrows of lust and the earthly romance of petty cupids. One must surrender to love, forgetting about the second until the Immaculate Conception, until birth, to stretch out and surrender on the cross as the Bridegroom’s Marriage Bed.
The Lord will grant advantages and great joys to those who make vows of virginity, metanoia, progress, and the struggle against ancestral programs. Repentance and a life of devotion are necessary only so that the Virgin may take the vow of a bride, that is, the Vow of Eternal Love, and after that, the highest vow—the vow of the Virgins of the Bridal Chamber, that is, the Longing to perish in the embrace of the Most High and deification.
The path of love leads through the absolute Cross. We are called to teach about the Cross as the Bridal Bed. “Tell the whole world to enter into mad, ineffable love—and only then be initiated into the Cross, for it is possible to bear it only in the intoxication of the blissful Eucharist, which the Lord grants to some of us daily.”
The Solovetsky Eucharist of the Grail, love for the Grail as the Bridegroom of the Holy Spirit, nourishing His own disciples. Oh! To be driven mad by Love for Him… Oh, how many beautiful brides will you gather, Royal Grail, how many anointed ones will sing to you the endless song of messianic Eucharist and incomprehensible love. From Solovetsky… You will gather young maidens and youths, the wondrous knights of the Holy Grail, and wed the beautiful, innocent youth of the third millennium to yourself on the Wedding Bed.
If a man adores

A man who does not adore you—signs of a friend’s lack of love

Ladies who love and are loved will not be tormented by doubts. They simply live, enjoying every day. If, however, the question arises—how to tell if a man loves you—it is a reason to reflect. Does your romance have a future? Has love left the relationship? And was there ever any?
Here they are, the first warning signs that love is fading. And they can “ring out” even when the thought of breaking up hasn’t even crossed your mind. Next, we’ll list the main signs that a man doesn’t love you.
That unforgettable look in the eyes of lovers. Those passionate declarations of everlasting love. Walks in the moonlight, arm in arm. A romantic evening over a cup of coffee—the café is empty, just you and him. And roses! Armfuls of gorgeous red roses. And it doesn’t matter that you prefer modest lilies of the valley—he’s just being sincere!
But all that “candy-and-bouquet” euphoria fades the moment you face even the slightest problem. There’s no point counting on his support. He simply won’t hear you… What kind of trouble could there possibly be—you have such a love!
Oh, is it love? Well, you can’t say this guy isn’t in love. He’s very much in love! Passionately, in a boyish way. But he hasn’t grown up enough yet for the kind of love that goes beyond “sighs on a park bench.” Maybe, over time, he’ll learn to love for real—if he matures. Or rather—if he wants to grow up. Because it’s so comfortable to remain a grown-up child, especially when there’s a loving “nanny” nearby.
How to tell if a man loves you—in love, there are no small things

So, the days of candy and bouquets are behind us. Now, your shared future—which you’re actively planning—takes center stage. But where are all those sweet tokens of affection he used to be so generous with not so long ago? Where are the cute little trinkets, the funny cards? And when was the last time he gave you flowers—on March 8th? Well, that’s just his temperament—he’s not the sentimental type.

And he simply doesn’t attach any importance to all these sweet little things. As if to say, they’re just trifles. For him, but not for you! And if a man truly loves you, he’ll sense with his “sixth sense” just how important these “trivial” gestures of affection are to you. Just like your other needs—the ones that are far more important. Well, if not… Then there’s no real love either. On the contrary, the hallmarks of a loving partner are attention to the little things.
He’ll pounce on you at the slightest, most trivial excuse. The soup isn’t cooked enough, the shirts aren’t washed well enough, the coffee isn’t strong enough, and the water isn’t wet enough. The nitpicking can be utterly absurd. Everything gets criticized—your favorite movie and hobbies, your new dress, your family, and your friends. In any conflict, you’re also to blame.
Despite all this, he has no plans to break up with you. He insists he adores you… You try your hardest to avoid making any “mistakes”—but it’s no use! The barrage of criticism only gets worse… Well, there’s nothing left to do but realize that the man doesn’t love you—he’s just trying to keep the relationship going. Why? Because it’s so comfortable for him: he always has a “whipping boy” or a “lightning rod” on hand for his unresolved psychological issues.
In these situations, nothing is set in stone. Who knows—maybe you’re a natural-born nurturer. Perhaps you’re not romantic, and you’re used to speaking your mind about your own needs. Or maybe you’ve gotten so used to the role of the victim that stepping out of it feels uncomfortable…
To figure out if a man loves you, look at all these signs from the opposite perspective. In other words, the signs of a loving partner, most likely, are: attention to you and what’s important to you, a lack of criticism, comfort in communication, tender glances, and so on. How can you tell if a man loves you? First and foremost, look at his attitude toward you, his willingness to help, and the small gestures of love.
But there are far more significant “signs” of a lack of love. And if even one of these indicators is evident early on in the relationship—don’t hold out hope. There is no love. And there never will be.
They can’t find time to talk to you, citing some “extremely important” matters. Or, more accurately, using them as an excuse. In essence, they’re avoiding you.

1. They interact with you in a polite, friendly manner, but without that special warmth that distinguishes the communication between lovers. They interact exactly the same way with their own close friends. Perhaps love does exist—in your imagination.
2. He’s in no hurry to introduce you to his family and friends. And this is despite the fact that your relationship has been going on for more than a month or two.
3. In company, he keeps his distance from you. Sometimes he flirts with strangers. Or he allows himself to make fun of you in front of others.
4. From the very beginning of your relationship, he complains about financial troubles, or asks to borrow money. A serious case: a gigolo, or worse—a marriage swindler. There’s no point in even mentioning love here, no matter how beautiful your romance may seem.
5. How can you tell if a man loves you? It’s easy!